Ideas for creating family birthday traditions
Birthday balloons
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It was just a few days after President’s Day when I ventured out of the house to run errands. There were no sales at the stores (in my honor), the government offices were not closed, and I did not receive an invitation to the Royal Wedding of Prince William. The day was only special to me because it was my birthday. It was a milestone birthday, one that was a multiple of three, and divisible by five.
I stopped at a clothing store just to browse and maybe treat myself to a new outfit. I spotted a couple of dresses that were 60 percent off. Wow, I couldn’t pass that up. The only problem was that the dresses were in a size that I used to wear.
I tried the dresses on anyway, just in case they “ran big” or maybe there was an off chance that I had lost a couple of pounds. All I can say is that those fitting room mirrors have got to be trick mirrors. I looked for hidden cameras to confirm that I wasn’t on some reality show. I put the dresses back on the rack and continued my journey.
Birthdays can be a fun time for celebration. After I was done laughing at myself, I thought about how I could involve the family in my celebration. From my talkative son, I asked for 30 minutes of quiet time. Another request was for one day of the kids doing chores without being asked. I could make this a family tradition.
Whether it’s your birthday or one of the kids birthday, you can start a tradition of fun ways to celebrate. Family birthday tradition ideas are listed at kidsparties.com. Families shared the following traditions:
• The Stormoens family hides the birthday child’s gifts and leaves a poem telling where to find each gift.
• The Coffey family makes it a day of favorites. The birthday person gets his or her favorite meal for dinner, their favorite cake and wears a favorite article of clothing.
• The Voitl family celebrates with lots of balloons. The birthday person’s room is decorated with balloons and streamers so he wakes up to a celebration room. Get creative with banners, streamers and ribbons. Take a family photo to savor the moment.
• The Fulmer family creates a birthday journal book. They have a party and have friends and family write a birthday message and also record gifs.
One of my favorite birthday traditions is to have dinner with my family at a restaurant where wait staff yell out to everyone that it’s your birthday. They hand you your dessert and sing their version of happy birthday. It’s usually a ton of laughs.
Do you have a family birthday tradition?
Angela Verges is a writer and mother of two. She can be reached at awritersdream41@yahoo.com.
Comments
Klayton
Fri, Mar 4, 2011 : 2:23 a.m.
We do a "birthday week" where the person whose birthday it is gets to call the shots all week and is treated extra special (nothing costly just maybe the choice seat in the family room or they get to choose who gets dropped off first...etc). Adults and kids get each get a week. The other thing I do for my kids is to give them a new charm each year on their birthday (they each have a charm bracelet), the charm represents milestones from the year and is engraved with quotes.
singsong
Thu, Mar 3, 2011 : 7:10 p.m.
Post sticky notes all over the house, one for every year, each one saying one thing we love about them. So, for my husband's 38th birthday, we'll post 38 sticky love notes around the house.
Sarah Rigg
Thu, Mar 3, 2011 : 2:47 p.m.
Our family birthday tradition was that the birthday boy or girl got to choose what to have for dinner and what flavor cake they wanted. They also got out of doing dishes & other chores for that one day. That's a tradition I'm happy to continue! As for older members of the family, I know someone who says that for major milestones like 30, 40 and 50, you get one day to celebrate for every decade you've been alive. I'm looking forward to 4 days of birthday partying in 2012!