When you're single, people like to tell you that you always find love when you're not looking for it. The idea of "not looking" sounds great in theory, but it's pretty ridiculous to think that we can control the natural urge to pair up with the opposite sex.

Not only do I not subscribe to this school of thought, but I recently discovered something that proves the opposite to be true. The problem is not that I'm looking to meet guys, it's that I've been going about it the wrong way.

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