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Posted on Thu, Apr 22, 2010 : 6:47 p.m.

Queen for a day: Homeless moms from Ann Arbor shelter get pampered at salon

By Janet Miller

When Gia Sills was accepted to live at Alpha House, a temporary shelter for homeless families in Ann Arbor, she expected safe lodging, help finding a job and direction in securing a permanent place to live for her and her two sons.

But not in her wildest dreams did Sills expect a haircut and color, a pedicure, a facial and a massage.

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Stylist Kate Bishop colors mom Michelle Olin's hair to return it to its natural strawberry blonde shade.

Janet Miller | For AnnArbor.com

For five hours Thursday afternoon, three mothers from Alpha House sat in the lap of luxury at Scappare Salon in South Lyon. They received hair and nail services, a limousine ride, lunch and the chance to sit around and chat with other women.

“A lot of our families are coming through crisis,” said Lindy Gill, volunteer coordinator with the Interfaith Hospitality Network of Washtenaw County, which runs Alpha House. “They don’t get to think about themselves often. This is a treat. A day of pampering to help them relax.”

Alpha House offers up to three months of shelter for homeless families (with at least one child 18 years or younger), along with support services such as helping adults find employment and permanent housing. Up to six families can stay at Alpha House at any given time. 

Members of churches, synagogues and other organizations provide all of the meals and children’s activities. “It is a community response to homeless,” Gill said. “It’s unique because it has so many helping hands.”

But it’s impossible to provide many frills. That’s where Scappare Salon came in. 

Owner Lindsay Cortis heard about an out-of-state salon offering a day of pampering to homeless parents and thought it would be a good way to give back to the community. 

“They can get away for half a day and relieve some of the stress. Not a lot of people these days can splurge on massages, facials and pedicures. But it makes you feel your best,” Cortis said.

The royal treatment began before they arrived at the salon. Cortis knows the owners of MTD Limousine and Coach Services in Farmington, and the company provided transportation between Alpha House and the salon.

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Stylist Kate Bishop washes the color out of mom Gia Sills' hair.

Janet Miller | For AnnArbor.com

Michelle Olin said the day helped relieve the stress that has built up over the past few months since she moved with her teenagers from Las Vegas to Ann Arbor and eventually into Alpha House. They lived there for two months before she found housing. 

“I’m trying to make a life for myself. This is a great way to reward myself and relax a little bit,” said Olin, who is disabled.

The pampering for Sills started with her first-ever massage and was followed by having her eyebrows shaped, hair tinted with a burgundy shine and then cut. It was something Sills said she could never afford on her own. 

“Money’s an issue, it’s always one or the other: Do I buy new shoes for the kids or do I get my hair done?” she said. She hadn’t had a haircut since last year.

After Sills served five months in the Washtenaw County Jail, she had no place of her own. She lost her Ypsilanti apartment when she went to jail. She and her two teenage boys lived in a house with her mother, aunt and grandmother, but that didn’t last. 

“Too many chiefs,” she said. A month ago, she moved into Alpha House and has submitted 60 job applications. She recently landed a part-time data entry job. 

“I’m taking it one day at a time,” Sills said.

Sills said she knew she was going to have to work hard when she was accepted into Alpha House. 

“But I didn’t know I was going to be pampered,” she said. “It’s awesome. And I don’t have to worry about how much I’m spending.”

Janet Miller is a freelance writer for AnnArbor.com. Reach the news desk at news@annarbor.com or 734-623-2530.

Comments

sue4kids

Tue, Apr 27, 2010 : 11:26 a.m.

How wonderful for the moms. I also was a single mom for awhile. It was so stressful trying to struggle with what to spend my money on. Medicine, food, paper goods, etc. You feel awful about being in the situation and you feel like a failure for not being able to support your kids. When you are applying for a job they want to see that you can be presentable to the public. Tough to do when there is no money. Thank you to Lindy and the staff at Alpha House, and the wonderful salon "Scappare Salon" for seeing that the womens needs went beyond food and shelter!!!!!!!!! Each day is a gift. How will you use your gift to help someone else today? I'll start by sending a check to Alpha House.

April Scarlett

Fri, Apr 23, 2010 : 4:34 p.m.

I don't quite understand why the identity of the women being in the paper is an issue. Is Alpha House a place for battered women as well? I think it is awesome what this salon did for these women. Sometimes a new look is all that is needed to restore self-confidence and feel worthy. Kudos!

Angela

Fri, Apr 23, 2010 : 2:38 p.m.

What a fantastic story! Wouldn't it be great if more business participated in things like this. Thank you to those involved and to Janet Miller for sharing. Good stories don't come along too often.

frankweir

Fri, Apr 23, 2010 : 1:33 p.m.

Kudos to the salon AND to Alpha House. I have been involved with Alpha House for several years now and they can always use anyone who might like to help out in any fashion. It's a wonderful effort and there aren't many places that can house whole families for a period of time and help them get settled somewhere after they find themselves homeless. Watch for Alpha House's fall fundraiser at Washtenaw Community College. It's fun and just buying a ticket and attending helps a lot.

jcj

Fri, Apr 23, 2010 : 9 a.m.

I am one of the more cynical commenters [sic] normally. But I applaud the deed done here and wish these persons well. None of us know how close we could be to the same situation.

A2Boy

Fri, Apr 23, 2010 : 6:10 a.m.

Scappare Salon, what a nice way to give back to the community. I hope that others in the community take note of this and frequent your salon!

Mary Bilyeu

Thu, Apr 22, 2010 : 9:10 p.m.

What a wonderful gift of luxury and a bit of escape!!! This is a fabulous story... :)

Anonymous Due to Bigotry

Thu, Apr 22, 2010 : 9:03 p.m.

At first I kind of thought this seemed like a waste, but if you talk to homeless people you'll find that homelessness is as much a psychological state as a financial one. I wish homeless people had more to feel good about on a daily basis. At least this is something.

emu2009

Thu, Apr 22, 2010 : 7:34 p.m.

The women in this story gave permission for their names and photos to be used.

Annette

Thu, Apr 22, 2010 : 7:17 p.m.

i applaude the good deed in helping these women feel better about themselves but i am shocked that the agency didn't protect the identity of those homeless women. their first, last name and picture are in the newspaper. how irresponsible.