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Posted on Mon, Feb 14, 2011 : 6 a.m.

Ypsilanti Township man bids a special farewell to wife of 63 years after tragic fire

By Lee Higgins

Freeman Tippett will miss his wife's apple pie, their moments on the dance floor together and the sunny afternoons they sat on their patio in Ypsilanti Township, listening to the birds sing.

Tippett was married to his wife Grace for more than six decades and served in the Army during World War II while she worked at the Willow Run Bomber Plant.

Freeman and Grace met at a dance in Carleton. He was a truck driver at the time. She was a farm girl.

They raised two sons, spending many of their golden years volunteering, traveling and camping, family members said.

“They went to church together,” said their eldest son, Terry Tippett of Augusta Township. “They went shopping together for everything. They liked to go visit family."

As they aged, Freeman Tippett, a retired pipe fitter from Ford Motor Company, kept a closer eye on Grace. He was extremely fond of her, often calling her "Babe" and "Mother," said Terry Tippett's wife, Suzanne Tippett.

"He was very protective over her," she said. "She was getting a little frail, even though she was still busy."

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Grace Tippett and her husband Freeman Tippett are pictured on the dance floor at a family wedding in Chesaning in July. Grace Tippett died in a fire at the couple's Ypsilanti Township home on Feb. 3. Freeman Tippett was injured and remains hospitalized. 

On Feb. 3 at about 5 p.m., a fire tore through the couple's Stony Creek Road home, where they had lived for 54 years and raised their family. Grace Tippett, 87, who was resting in a bedroom, died at the scene of smoke inhalation. 

Freeman Tippett made it out, but suffered burns to his head, ears and left hand. He was taken by ambulance to the University of Michigan Hospital, where he remains in the Trauma-Burn Intensive Care Unit. The house was destroyed, family members said.

The fire started in a breezeway next to the kitchen, but the cause remains under investigation, Ypsilanti Township Fire Capt. Vic Chevrette said Sunday. Hours after the fire, family members gathered at Freeman Tippett's bedside in the hospital and gave him the news about Grace. A pastor was with them.

“They woke him up, and we told him about it,” Suzanne Tippett said. “We also let him know that his house was gone. He closed his eyes and shed a couple tears.

"We just told him to try and get some rest. I did tell him it wasn’t his time.”

As Freeman Tippett faced a long road to recovery, the family worked on funeral arrangements. It soon became clear he wouldn't be healthy enough to attend the funeral of his wife of more than 63 years. 

Suzanne Tippett said, “My husband and I knew that the only way (Freeman) would accept that she was gone is he would have to see her.”

So Suzanne Tippett and other family members met with Julie Roberts, a clinical social worker at the Trauma-Burn ICU. Family members asked whether it was possible to bring Grace Tippett to the hospital.

While no one at the hospital could recall such a request ever being made, staff members sprung into action. Roberts contacted the hospital's Office of Decedent Affairs and Brad Stark, president of Stark Funeral Service in Ypsilanti, which was handling the funeral arrangements.

On the afternoon of Feb. 8, within 24 hours after the family's request, hospital staff brought Freeman Tippett up to the second-floor chapel on a gurney to see his wife in her casket. A burn unit nurse, respiratory therapist, social worker, hospital chaplain, the family's pastor and others also were in the chapel.

"We said, 'Can you see what's happening, Pop?" Suzanne Tippett said. "And he was nodding his head up and down."

Freeman Tippett, who was bandaged and unable to speak, reached over with his right hand and grabbed onto his wife's arm. For more than 40 minutes, he was at her side.

“He cried a little bit and closed his eyes, then opened them up,” Suzanne Tippett said.

Others also shed tears, Terry Tippett said. “There wasn’t one dry eye in the place,” he said.

Suzanne Tippett, who is a registered nurse but doesn't work at U-M hospital, said what the hospital did was remarkable. “U of M moved heaven and earth to get her down there,” she said.

At least 25 hospital employees pitched in, Roberts said. 

“It needed to be done for this family,” she said. “This is the first time that we’ve worked with a funeral home to facilitate a viewing, essentially a funeral at the hospital."

Marc Littleson, a funeral director at Stark Funeral Service, who assisted with the funeral, said the company was going to do everything possible to accommodate the family. It was wonderful the hospital gave Freeman Tippett a chance to say goodbye, he said.

"They have no idea what they did for Mr. Tippett," Littleson said. "Mr. Tippett didn't have an opportunity to say goodbye one last time. When it comes to the grieving process, that's a huge step."

Terry Tippett said his family will be forever grateful. 

On Sunday, Freeman Tippett celebrated his 87th birthday. Terry Tippett asks that everyone keep his father in their prayers.

“Even though this is a horrible tragedy, there is still good in the world,” he said. “People are willing to go the extra steps to make things happen.”

Lee Higgins is a reporter for AnnArbor.com. He can be reached by phone at (734) 623-2527 and email at leehiggins@annarbor.com.

Comments

Karen St John

Sat, Mar 19, 2011 : 11:41 p.m.

So sad. My heart is breaking for him.

15crown00

Tue, Feb 15, 2011 : 2:33 a.m.

THAT IS SPECIAL.What a moving story

MJSteklac

Tue, Feb 15, 2011 : 12:06 a.m.

A very special and moving story. Thanks to everyone who made it possible. Between this story and the Dan Tan/Darius Morris story, I'm a mess. Thanks for sharing.

Dona

Mon, Feb 14, 2011 : 10:10 p.m.

What a wonderful story in the face of such tragedy. The U of M Staff and Stark's Funeral home truly understand the emotions of this situation and all of them truly are angels in making this private viewing happen.

Randy Dieter

Mon, Feb 14, 2011 : 7:17 p.m.

I was happy to read that the powers-to-be were able to cut through all the usual anticipated red tape, to do something good for someone!

julieswhimsies

Mon, Feb 14, 2011 : 7:02 p.m.

I heartily agree with Cash. He said it best. Show some love to elders today and everyday. Elders live with loss daily. Volunteer to visit an elder who has no one in a nursing home. Say hello and give a helping to that elderly neighbor who never leaves her home. Find out just how LITTLE you really know about life by spending some time with an elder.

Marge Bass

Mon, Feb 14, 2011 : 4:38 p.m.

Roses to U of M Hospital Staff and Stark Funeral Home. My own parents were married over 63 years when my Dad passed away, and it would have been devastating to my mother if she hadn't been able to say "Goodbye" to him. What a woderful story. In this troubled world it is nice to see that many people do care about their fellowmen. It seems the media usually only carries the stories about our selfish world. Keep up the good work AA .

magnumpi

Mon, Feb 14, 2011 : 2:51 p.m.

Very nice story of love for Valentine's Day. I guess the good die old too :(

DFSmith

Mon, Feb 14, 2011 : 1:53 p.m.

RIP, Grace Tippett. And I hope you get well and recover fully, Mr Tippett.

lisam

Mon, Feb 14, 2011 : 1:45 p.m.

What a heartfelt story. Having lost my father recently, this rips at your heart strings. My prayers to Mr. Tippett that he has the strength and courage to live on. I know Brad Stark and I am not surprised at all for Stark Funeral Home being there for the family.

Elaine F. Owsley

Mon, Feb 14, 2011 : 1:43 p.m.

I'm reminded of the Kennedy speech, perhaps it was Robert, and the phrase that ended "why not?" Wonderful things can be accomplished by people who care and see beyond the artificial barriers. UM Hospital provided the best medicine they could for Mr. Tippet.

snoopdog

Mon, Feb 14, 2011 : 1:22 p.m.

How very sad, my problems for today have been diminished completely. I am glad to know that Mr. Tippet has a wonderful supportive family to help him through this tough time.

OLDTIMER3

Mon, Feb 14, 2011 : 1:07 p.m.

I can still hear Freeman calling his wife Babe at our retirement meetings.. They were a terrific couple. That was a wonderful thing both hospital and funeral home did for the family. Also great tearing story Lee. Hopefully they will find the cause and we will see it in the AAnews

glimmertwin

Mon, Feb 14, 2011 : 1:03 p.m.

Dry eye in the place? Mine are watering right now. God Bless this family and thank you to the hospital for showing compassion to these people.

Silly Sally

Mon, Feb 14, 2011 : 12:54 p.m.

How very sad. It is bringing tears to my eyes. The practical side of me wondered if they had smoke detectors and carbon monoxide detectors. And then since they are older and may not hear a s well, do they make any that have a much louder, lower pitched alarm, sort of like the old Bell System Western Electric telephone rings? Or a school bell? I pray for him and his family. But, at least they were happily married for 63 years, more than most.

Cash

Mon, Feb 14, 2011 : 12:19 p.m.

Heartbreaking, but inspirational in so many ways. 1. Never ending love of a spouse 2. Family love... finding a way for their dad to say good-bye to their mom. 3. Hospital and Starks's staff no doubt removing lots of barriers to make the viewing possible. If you pass a senior citizen today, please give them a big smile. We suffer losses one after another and it's overwhelming sometimes. Seeing your smiles lifts us up and gives us hope.

DDOT1962

Mon, Feb 14, 2011 : 11:58 a.m.

I can barely see through my own tears. I'm moved.