Articles tagged:parenting experiences

Posted: Fri Sep 9 6 a.m. by Angela Verges AnnArbor.com Community Contributor
Parents: Shake up your back to school routine with these tips

The signs that school is back in session are all around us — kids waiting at the bus stop, requests to volunteer at school and forms to complete. My kids seemed to ease into their first few days pretty easily. Now it’s my turn. The carpool schedule is set, I ...

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Posted: Wed Jun 22 7:07 a.m. by Paul Fredenberg AnnArbor.com Community Contributor
Playing chess with the kids can be a 'no-win situation'

“Your move, James,” I said to my son as we sat on the sofa one night playing a game of chess. We were surrounded by a gallery of younger spectators. And we both knew from experience that board games in our house, at least those played during waking hours, always ...

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Posted: Tue Jun 14 10:57 a.m. by Paul Fredenberg AnnArbor.com Community Contributor
'Big Van on Campus' - Dad taught me a priceless family tradition

Even though we needed gas, I was hoping no one would notice the sign as we blistered by at 75 miles an hour. Maybe, I thought, they were asleep. Maybe they would forget. I had been driving through the night — from Tampa to Atlanta and now almost to Toledo ...

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Posted: Wed Jun 8 7:07 a.m. by Paul Fredenberg AnnArbor.com Community Contributor
'Home Economy' - Getting nickeled and dimed in my own home

Not long ago one of my daughters came looking for me. The boys told her that I was working —“making money” — up in my home office. She slipped in quietly, wiggled up onto my lap and spent a long moment peeking around the sides and back of my computer ...

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Posted: Fri Jun 3 6:30 p.m. by Eva Johnson AnnArbor.com Community Contributor
Stay out of (my kids') business! There's no rush to toilet train your toddler

A good friend of mine recently visited with her adorable 2-year-old kiddo. As we were driving around, I commented that toilet training must be something that she is starting to think about. She mentioned that her son had no interest, and she wasn't going to push the issue at this ...

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Posted: Wed Jun 1 10:07 a.m. by Paul Fredenberg AnnArbor.com Community Contributor
'Garage Fail': A place for everything but the cars

“Please close the garage door,” Alison warned me just as I was climbing into bed, clearly put off by my recent habit of keeping it wide open. “People take stuff.” I quickly dismissed her concern and instead got comfortable with my newspaper. “You’re asking for it, you know,” she continued. ...

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Posted: Thu May 26 10:20 a.m. by Angela Verges AnnArbor.com Community Contributor
How do you teach children independence and responsibility?

It was time for my son to travel on a four-day camping trip with his sixth grade class. As we packed, he checked off items from a list provided by his teacher. The items included typical things like toothbrush, toothpaste, sleeping bag, a pillow. I needed to squeeze a few ...

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Posted: Wed May 18 5:59 a.m. by Paul Fredenberg AnnArbor.com Community Contributor
'Birthdate': Getting the most free stuff out of our family birthdays

The kids and I went around the dinner table talking about what makes Alison so special. “She gives us lots of kisses.” “She’s a great cook.” “She’s really pretty.” “Without Mommy,” Peter said thoughtfully, “none of us would be here.” Everyone smiled and nodded in solemn agreement. It was one ...

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Posted: Wed May 11 10:50 a.m. by Paul Fredenberg AnnArbor.com Community Contributor
A word of advice: Please 'do not call' the home landline

“Do you like unicorns?” “What are you having for lunch?” “Are you coming to my birthday party?” she continued, never mind the party wouldn’t be for another eight months. Maryanna, our 5 year old, was chattering away on the phone. I had heard it ring and was too slow to ...

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Posted: Mon May 9 11:09 a.m. by Jenn McKee Entertainment Journalist, AnnArbor.com
Chasing the ever-elusive 'date night'

Joe and I could only hope to look this put-together when we finally get out for a date night. Sometimes, my pre-parental perspective on things feels downright quaint. For instance, in the months when we were expecting Lily, many of our friends with kids, and the few books I read, ...

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Posted: Wed May 4 9 a.m. by Paul Fredenberg AnnArbor.com Community Contributor

The air was thick with the scent of a fast approaching Michigan summer — stifling humidity mixed with the sweetness of fresh-cut grass and the oily pungency from a neighbor’s fresh sealcoating. My parents had offered to watch the kids at their home so that Alison and I could have ...

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Posted: Wed Apr 27 11:07 a.m. by Paul Fredenberg AnnArbor.com Community Contributor
Seven small children make any trip a 'working vacation'

The kids pressed snugly up to the glass at the aquarium, smiling and watching the fish casually glide by while I, for the umpteenth time, stood and counted them. 1,2,3,4,5,6,7. “Look, Daddy,” someone said, “it’s a queen parrotfish.” There was excited pointing and gesticulation. “It actually sleeps in a protective ...

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Posted: Wed Apr 6 7:10 a.m. by Paul Fredenberg AnnArbor.com Community Contributor
Videogames: the common thread between Dennis Rodman, my boys and me

The directive from Alison was as clear as a thunderbolt echoing down the basement stairs. “You guys have 30 minutes.” Growing up, my mom imposed few limits on our Nintendo games. In those days it was a well-documented fact that the television could turn your brain to mush, but videogames ...

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Posted: Thu Mar 31 7 a.m. by Angela Verges AnnArbor.com Community Contributor

As I browsed through a collection of books at Barnes & Noble, one particular book caught my eye. The book was titled, "Driving While Under the Influence of Children" by Rick Kirkman and Jerry Scott. The book was compiled of comic strips from the Baby Blues series. One of the chapter ...

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Posted: Wed Mar 23 9:07 a.m. by Paul Fredenberg AnnArbor.com Community Contributor
The family flu: What goes around comes around

“But Daddy, didn’t we already have Chex for lunch?” asked one of the kids. “Yeah, and for breakfast?” asked another. It’s true, we had been eating a lot of Rice Chex, and the tone of their voices indicated that they were in the market for something different for dinner. “I’d ...

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